Privacy Issues - best firends/marriage

[SuperChatter]

I have a huge issue on privacy

Subscribers should not be permitted to best friend/marry you WITHOUT your permission. Furthermore, We should not have to subscribe to divorce, when we never wanted/approved of this marriage/bff in the first place. This is WRONG. (think of stalkers, and kids using chat)

The best friend/marriage STICKS to every computer in your house. SO if I am married to so and so, when my parents/spouse/kids/friends get on, then it shows they are married/bff to that person too - even on different computers, different registered names, different non registered names..etc

What is the purpose of best friending/ marrying someone, if you end up marrying everyone on that IP address, makes no sense to me.

There has to be a better way to eliminate the MARRY BFF thing or to stay specific to a registered user or xat profile number. NOT to IP's which makes you bff to everyone on your premises.

You should not have to register to un-friend/divorce someone,you should not be able to just friend anyone without permission.

Please help, and don't let someone marry/bff you, if you don't want it.

I don't want anyone to ever bff/marry me on xat, what are the options? I don't want to be someones bff/marriage who is just another person on my house

Please help!

[SuperChatter]

I almost wish it could be removed until the privacy issue is resolved.

I don't know if that can be done.

[compg318]

I dont know about taking it away but it definitely needs a "accept" feature on both ends.

[xTaydenx]

Agreed, this would make things even on both sides. I mean lol if i got on and i was married....and i didn't even know who that would be wierd lol.
Anyway yeh good idea.