Alright, I have an Idea

[ArchAngel]

as I've been told, we have tried this. BUTTTT
I wasn't present.

We need to get all these chat fightings resolved.
Its causing problems for the whole site, and ruining many people's site experience.

The whole idea of xat was to create a community where everyone could chat with people around the world.
With chats fighting amongst themselves, the community is slowly being shattered.

With all these problems going on, many users end up quitting. I know, i've seen it happen with several of my friends.

Therefor, I suggest all main owners and owners of all chats included in this fight go to a mediation session, with me present, so we can talk this out.
However, I will need the help of xat's staff for this, because I want this to end.

I have friends on all of the chats, many who I can't talk to regularly because of all this fighting.

I am not for any side in this. I am neutral, im not for any chat.

I am for xat as a whole.

So, with that in mind, I request the help of xat staff to organize a mediation period with all main owners of the fighting chats.

I know this will be hard to do, but if we can find a solution, this site can be a community again, and not a battlefield.

[DarkKnight]

Good idea.
But knowing the people involved, this will fall through.

[SchnoogleWoo]

Welcome to reality my friend :/

Must never forget that hate is human. It is an emotion and must not be suppressed as with other feelings. The opposite of love. Like yin yang. There is a balance in this that is a part of our function and we need both the negative and the positive to have some kind of moral, values and opinions at all. Its one of the scales of life.

Hate is like a coin, you can never hate if you didnt want to love.

Toss the coin, you say heads, its not heads, you may start to hate, if its heads, you like it.

[Sookyoung]

if ppl r fighting then

go to court and tell wat happen and problem solve

[tvkid5000]

if ppl r fighting then

go to court and tell wat happen and problem solve

I dont think life is that simple,

i suggest you just report all the chats involved to the admins, i doubt nothing will be done however its best if thease chats just ignore each over, and do not spam each overs room/ban just because there part of a chat, basiculy grow up (;

-James.

[ACKirbachu]

However, I will need the help of xat's staff for this, because I want this to end.


So, with that in mind, I request the help of xat staff to organize a mediation period with all main owners of the fighting chats.
xat.com does not resolve disputes between users... (http://xat.com/terms)

xat staff create new features for xat, and do what they can to make sure terms are enforced. They do not settle disputes between chat owners. If a chat owner is breaking terms of service click inappropriate at topright and enter info there. But if it's just hating etc., as said before that's how it is when lots of users are grouped together, hate occours and then it turns into fighting. Any xat chat has drama, some chats handle it differnetly from another, but it's there. It's all over the real world too; schools, jobs, and even just social life will have conflict.

Again xat staff won't get involved in this, sorry. :(